We are no longer teenagers – in body if not spirit. Although this study was done on teens it applies to us SeenAgers because we were once teenagers who suppressed our emotions.
The coping skills teenagers develop by the time they are adolescents have the potential to impact their health later in life. It’s not that health will be impacted in the short term but over decades could make a difference.
“That may be how small changes in metabolic or inflammatory outcomes may become associated with poorer health or a greater chance of developing a chronic disease later in life.”*.
The study** of 261 adolescents between 13 and 16 years old, explored whether the strategies adolescents used to deal with chronic stress caused by families affected various metabolic and immune processes in the body whichincluded:
Cognitive reappraisal — trying to think of the stressor in a more positive way and
Suppression — inhibiting the expression of emotions in reaction to a stressor,
Teenagers who suppressed emotions tended to have more inflammation when their immune cells were exposed to a bacterial stimulus in the lab, even in the presence of anti-inflammatory signals.
Conversely, those who used cognitive reappraisal had better metabolic measures, like blood pressure and waist-to-hip ratio.
Reappraising a situation during times of stress could be beneficial no matter our age.For a mild stressor, this can be as simple as reframing a bad situation by thinking about it as a challenge or an opportunity for growth:
SeenAge reframe: Being a Seenager is indeed a challenge and our expanding waist lines an opportunity for growth?
“Stress-related disorders and diseases have been on the rise in the whole population for decades, according to data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, including those leading to . . . deaths of despair, but also to heart disease, obesity, and diabetes.”
“National surveys by the American Psychological Association that also capture how stressed, anxious and overwhelmed we feel show a similar increasing pattern. And it shows up in our bodies, even before we get sick or start down the many roads to self-harm.”
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I personally have experienced just that. My fibromyalgia flared for the first time during a particularly stressful time in my life. The truth is I didn’t realize how stressed I was at the time. Years later, it dawned on me that I had been in the center of “the perfect” storm of stressful circumstances: My aging parents and in-laws were dying; my work focused on anger, anxiety, depression – any and all forms of psychological tension or stress; and my own hormonal changes.
I’ve seen similar circumstances with many clients and colleagues who, like me, coped with and habituated to the level of stress they were under and often didn’t know the magnitude of impact until much later when they became ill.
All of us experience stress from work, money worries, traffic, political news, deadline pressure, relationship difficulties etc. and an even more basic cause which lies hidden at the intersection of psychology and biology:
“A central biological pathway is from excess cortisol — the fight-or-flight hormone — that characterizes being over-stressed for long periods of time. This “stress dysregulation” leads to risky health decisions, like addiction or overeating, and directly to many health problems linked to excess cortisol.”
How we THINK triggers the stress response. We don’t have to actually be in a stressful situation – it’s our perception of it that alone can trigger a neuro-biological stress response.
Slow-moving and cumulative social forces “get under the skin” early in life and can show up decades later in morbidity and mortality.
Losing a sense of control that you believed you had, whether real or not, justified or not, creates stressful dislocations.
There are many things that can be done to “de-stress”. Most require time, money, effort or all three. Basically, we like what is quick and easy. To that end we’ve accumulated information and exercises over the 30 decades each of us was in practice and have now compiled some of it into a 19 page FREE PDF.
The Hamilton Projectlooked at the “physiological stress load” in the US using biological markers tied to cardiovascular, kidney and liver function to create a stress load index. This physical stress load, a precursor to many diseases, has increased in striking fashion since the late 1970s, and it is getting worse as each new age group enters adulthood.