3 Reasons Why We can’t disconnect from E-mail

  1. Easily addicted: Our brains are wired to constantly seek novelty, and every new email that lands in our inbox with a ping sends a dopamine-fueled shiver of excitement through our cerebrum.

(Turning off notifications and setting and communicating clear email rules in workplaces and after hours can disrupt that addictive dopamine loop.)

Behavioral science would suggest there’s more than just neurotransmitters at work.
 2. Pain avoidance: “Another factor that may be driving our inability to disconnect is the peak-end rule, whereby people tend to judge an experience based on what it felt like at its most intense point and at the end. In other words, what we remember most about our inbox is just how awful it feels to face all those unanswered emails — that endless, running to-do list of other people’s priorities — that have piled up. So we keep checking just to avoid that pain.”

3. Short term pay-off:  human predilection for making decisions based on short-term payoffs, like deciding to fall back into a warm bed in the morning rather than get up and exercise.

“We love to get things ‘done,'” explained Iris Bohnet, a behavioral economist at the Harvard Kennedy School. “Email is terrible for that. If you only respond to these 10 emails, it feels like an accomplishable task.”

 Ironically, if we did stop constantly checking email, we really wouldn’t miss that much. In a survey, Daniel Ariely, professor of psychology and behavioral economics at Duke, found that only 11% of the emails in our inboxes require immediate attention. The other 89% can wait.






4 comments on “3 Reasons Why We can’t disconnect from E-mail

  1. Which is why I do not want a smart phone. When I turn off my computer, I am OFF GRID – and I’m perfectly happy not being in contact with anyone and everyone.

    I really appreciate knowing the percentages and that so many other folks can’t keep up with the email inbox. Fortunately, this blog is one that I choose to follow regularly – fairly regularly – sometimes I binge blog to catch up.


      • Binge blogging is reading the last 20 or so posts from one blog, rather than following every single post from 120 blogs every day. I only do this with blogs I enjoy. Many of the rest I simply no longer respond to. I think it’s important not to be owned by blogs, twitter, facebook, email, or anything else a computer tries to convince us we owe our time to.


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